Saturday, July 25, 2009

The Unfortunate Loss (es).

Most of you who had been visiting my page in orkut / facebook would have remembered I had a trip to Lunglei 23rd – 26th June for a field study. But, the more you read, the more you will know it was not an ordinary field trip. Allow me to share with you

I started from Aizawl on the 23rd June, around 6:30 am and reached Lunglei around 3:30 pm. Of course we had taken the road via Sailsuk (175 kms from Aizawl). Just as we started the trip, the driver started giving us theory lessons on how to drive. Guess he was so engorged in it; we almost hit a truck twice, and finally just before reaching Lunglei, “BANG!!” we collided with a Zen, right at the curve. Sad but true, he had to pay for it. That was the reason we reached Lunglei later than expected, if you were wondering. The sight of Lunglei made my anguish and fear vanish. It’s a lovely town! You must make a point to visit if you haven’t been there already.

From then on we (one project fellow and I) started hunting for Anopheles. Maybe because of the heavy rain every evening, the whole day’s hunting seemed to be in vain. We started each day from 6:30 am to 6:30 pm to different places. To our surprise around 4:30 pm, on the second day; in Zotlang tuikhur, we could find 6 (six) measly Anopheles larvae. Anyway it’s much better than none right? We were happy...

This was my first trip to Lunglei. As for my partner, it was his first trip to Mizoram (he is Assamese btw). It was a great relief when …. called me and assured me that everything was prepared and we would not have any trouble. (hmmm…!!!! You might have guessed - this was my second reason, to ….. you know). I had looked forward so very much to meet him there. Allow me to say, I have never met a man more comforting, friendly and supportive in my life. Though we have known each other for just three months, I was so very grateful that our paths crossed. Sadly, on the 24th (the following day we reached Lunglei), he left for Saiha. But then, :-) he came back from Saiha the day before we left Lunglei; through the swarming grasshoppers, the heavy rain and thunderstorms, so that he could see me off. I felt loved! The first sight of him made me want to hug him so very very tightly (Ahemz!) … he was fully drenched, and dirty (he fell off the bike – which he admitted with a cute boyish grin). But I couldn’t; it was neither the time nor the place. There were people around (hush!!!).

Okay, another reason - conducting workshop for ‘Sensitization of The National Children Science congress’ to the science teachers of Lunglei and Saiha district. Wish you can see the faces of the elderly teachers when they saw me!!! LOLz . But owing to Pu Chhandama’s introduction in the beginning, they could finally see me as a ‘Resource person’. The workshop went smooth than expected. I was happy that no one stood up to go outside the room to smoke (or do what bored people normally do when they go outside) till the end of the programme. Hmm!! Let’s see the success in the next Children Science congress Competition somewhere in Sept-Nov, 2009.

Now coming to my title…

Stayed in Lunglei, went around the town –visited every nook and corner of 23 Vengs (including Theiriat) we could find only 6 larvae, out of which, only two survived the trip back home. They both emerged to become (the loveliest and prettiest female) Anopheles theobaldi. I preserved them with utmost love and care; fully realizing the pain, the trouble and the hard work to find them…. in our freezer. My grandmother threw them before I could take them to University!!!!

The man of my dreams; the man, whom I thought, had fulfilled everything a girl could hope for; turned out to be a Forbidden Fruit!!!

Whuizzz!!! Guess now, I should concentrate on the positive aspects of my trip – the lovely elderly science teachers of Lunglei and Saiha.!!!

Will I be ever unlucky as this!!!! LOLZzzz

But with God holding my hand, I am growing stronger than ever! (… or at least I hope I do!!!).

23 comments:

Mimihrahsel said...

Life's like that Ri.. :-) Just remember this - GOD PLANS EVERYTHING FOR OUR OWN GOOD. I'm so positive that things will work out for you, be it your career, or your love life or anything. Coz I know you, Your one of a kind. You can achieve anything you want to. You've got everything girl.

Maybe we should do something with the "no name" guy from our campus.. hehehe..

Rita Zoye said...

@ Mimi: hehehe... beggars cant be chosers. Thanks you so much for the uplifting comment.

Mos-a said...

Love in the time of Anopheles kan ti mai dawn mi. (comment sei deuh pek hi ka thiam ve vak lova.. ill wait for illusionaire to stumble by this post). a romantic hmel khawp mai.

Unknown said...

im not much perturbed by your loss(es) (not coz i dont care, i do care)..........but coz im pretty sure u must hv lurnt something out of these...and im sure both with come back and this time u wud be wiser to make best out of them :)

ice-man said...

"COMMENT"

Rita Zoye said...

@ ice man "The Huge": uFFF!!!! This is all you have to say....?????

Rita Zoye said...

@ Moni: yes, given a second chance I definitely would... hmmm... Pray that i wud..LOL

Unknown said...

ok, i pray :P

ice-man said...

hey hey "huge man" here hahahaha...i'd love to start of by flattering you but i'll leave that to mimi hahaha but honestly speaking my dearest ritz, i'm so happy....happy that you found out just at the right moment...it's tough to leave when you're in, it's easiest at the entrance. i'm glad you waited at the entry, thought hard and turned back. you are an amazing girl,sweet to the core,emotional to the hilt and i adore you for that...only good things are in store for you..i truly believe that...so take this as a gift...not a loss...you lost nothing infact you won dearest...love ya;)

Rita Zoye said...

wow I can't believe I finally got a comment from 'the' ice man (he leaves by his name btw...) j/k dear, hmmm!!! Come to think of it, i haven't lost anything, I have you and 'The lean'. Love you too

Jay said...

God loves us so much
'Coz we are His sons/daughters
whatever trials HE give to us He knows that we can survive through it....just call His name And a help will come

Rita Zoye said...

@ Jay: this is the best advice ever

OpaHmar said...

All good men are either married, gay, sworn to celibacy or vampires (ask Sandman)...so they say

All good women are....unavailable....at least to me

Sometimes the person can of ur dreams can turn out to be a nightmare

I'd rather stick to ground reality

Rita Zoye said...

@ OP: Thanks 4 ure comment, appreciated..
I know one who is not married i.e., the female sps...

none the less, all the good guys seem to be a forbidden fruit...

Mizohican said...

There are so many interpretations to your post, especially for somebody like me who never got the honor to know you personally. Hence I am afraid I might say something totally out of the way :-) I must confess your post is a tad ambiguous, but nevertheless a great flow, even if taken literally or metaphorically.

Anonymous said...

Rather than the title, I've had an experience with Sumo drivers too, where I had to drive one from Jowai to Guwahati cos' after exchanging Sumo's at Sonapur(Landslide.. duh!), our new driver (Not Mizo) was too drunk to continue. (I dont blame him tho', I know how tough their job is!)
Anyways, there's something wrong with the display on your blog, or maybe its my browser.. anyone else noticed this?

Mos-a said...

nia lal Rita i blog comment ah hian a comment hnuai chiah leh a comment tupa/nu inkarah hian line a awm a. it looks like the the comment below it belong to the ah ka type peih tawh lo in hrethiam mai ang. :D

Rita Zoye said...

@ illusionare: thanx a lot, min ti phur leh zual khop mai.
@ Blackestred: TYVM.. Ive changed it, No wonder the update never shows.
@ amos: Facebook profile a MW, VW etc lang aichuan a hnuh nom deuh ang chu mo... LOL TYVM

Malsawmi Jacob said...

My condolences on your losses. Better luck will find you some day, for sure.

dr_feelgood said...

I suggest you breed especially fierce anopheles capable of delivering lethal dose of PF and PV malaria and release them in his house!! Just joking, i lo ti tak tak ange!!

Rita Zoye said...

@ dr feelgood: Now that's an idea!!! M not forgeting that one...LOL

Rita Zoye said...

@ mesjay: thanks.. i sure do hope so

Vanlalnghaka Chhawnchhek said...

Van lunglen thlak ve....