Saturday, May 9, 2009

COMPLIANCE....?????

Today I got up without a dream but with a feeling so uncertain. Had a cup of tea and went out for a walk with thoughts drumming in my head. So I paused for a while, started to think about all that I’ve gone through – the ups and downs of my life...

What I have made of “Me” with series of interceptions…



Sometimes or most of the time, don’t we all grasp for things we want in Helms way? Only to find out the result and keep it in our li’l treasure box – ‘Experience’; errors we try to fix them. Yet, if not, we keep on trying, linking best to keep the ways of Adaptation. Didn’t Darwin announce ‘Struggle for existence’?


Yet again, there is a certain thing we want so badly but can’t reach, let alone even to penetrate – through surplus trials; where adaptation doesn’t exist. Someone phrased it - ‘Scepters’ of the heaven’ (Oh For!! I’m not trying to reach heaven). How do we survive here?


Or do we not have a choice but to settle for the second best?!!!!


19 comments:

Unknown said...

well second best is not second best actually.
in fact its the best you can deserve and achieve.
and am not encouraging u to not strive for the 'best' that u think is. just that make urself more competitive for it and you shall achieve it. As they say, "deserve and u get get it"

-moni

Anonymous said...

nice!!!! intresting love it... keep it up....

Rita Zoye said...

thanks moni

Lal Jo-a said...

Theres a funny saying, "If at first you don't succeed, try something easier". So, why dont we just choose the best alternative when facing problems with the current activity. Well, to achieve anything, lets remember the 3D. Discipline, Determination & Dedication...yess.. you can do it. Try to reach heaven sometimes, its good. :D

Mimihrahsel said...

yeah babe.. i agree with the above, try to reach heaven..no one's perfect,its the little things we fail to see that can make us happy. and i dont think there's a second best. If u reach the so called "best", ull end up finding faults in that too. aim high, u'll land high..

Rita Zoye said...

@ Joseph and Mimi - Thanks I needed that...

Anonymous said...

Sometimes if you can’t have the ones you love, you need to love the ones you have, with all your heart.. I guess that's part of being an adult and making compromises you just can't seem to avoid. :p We were so eager to grow up, and now we miss our childhood.. such is life..

vana said...

ku zo i blog hi, a fonts tal ti var la, chhiar dawn chuan highlights a ngai zel :(. Kei zawng life ah hian sawi tur ka nei hrih lo... Existentialism (I blog meaning ang zawk, Not the whole debate of existence of God!) lam phei phei chu ka ril lo raps. Mahse hei zawng hi a dik,"tin, a nunga te chu an mahni tana an nun tawh lova, an thih aia thi atana an nuntawh zawk na turin..." tih ang khan.

Anonymous said...

Reaching for the heavens always gives you hope and drives you, and "..hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies" - Shawshank Redemption.
Sometimes, if you just can't get the best even though you have given it your all, you have to accept the second best, what matters is how you accept it.. I think making compromises is part of being an adult which you just can't ignore..

Mizohican said...

What did you have just before sleeping the previous night?

:D

ropuii said...

Wow, never knew u until now...Am i hearing a vibrant lady speaking? Yeap...a lady who is-[moving, crawling, falling, jumping, crying, struggling, laughing, flowing, rushing, sleeping, crawling]GROWING...with the current...ALL THE BEST DEARIE...
U Ro-i

ropuii said...

nice to see ur blog
-a guest

Rita Zoye said...

@ blackestred: Hmmm... meaning I haven't grown up!!! JK. really!!! Appreciating what I have and what can hold must have been somethin I missed out.. Thanks Just at the nick of time... Ure much much appreciated

Rita Zoye said...

@ Vana- I just wanted to have something I couldn't have.. As blackestred commented, Its always better to appreciate the things I have rather than to look for much higher grounds...and to make compromised... Something which I I've neva thought of before

Rita Zoye said...

@ Ropuii - I have changed haven't I... guess it comes with time (or age.. if u like hehehe).. keep on commin!!!

Rita Zoye said...

@ illusionaire : Can't say... hehehe

OpaHmar said...

ka se thiam nei nuai lo..hehe
But seriously, in life u r always at a crossroad; the chioces u make will determine where u end up 90% of the time and the other 10....out of our reach
Thats why it makes such good sense to trust in someone who had been thru it all

Rita Zoye said...

@ OPa hehehe LOLzzzz... not all the time dear, but only sometimes...
Know nebody wo hs bin thru it all??? plz introduce???
u gave good advice though... appreciated!!!

Lalthanzama said...

nag nge2..titha thei thruai2 khop mai